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Forgiveness or Freedom

Just feel into the energies of the words


Which one feels lighter is true for you


Have you ever found yourself saying you forgave someone


Yet you still felt all the hurts, anger, or resentment towards them?


The dynamic of the relationship didn’t change?


What did you define as forgiveness that actually isn’t?


What if forgiveness has been approached from outside in instead of inside out?


What if it is not about whom you forgive or don’t forgive outside of you?


But it is you who needs to set you free from


All the judgments of you first and foremost?


How much of your life have you spent


Judging yourself and making you wrong


For every choice you’ve made?


What if you have done nothing wrong to be forgiven?


What if others have done nothing wrong to be forgiven


Even if it is something you might perceive unforgivable either for you or them?


It is our judgments of ourselves and others that make it so


When you say ‘I am sorry to someone’, are you asking for and waiting on their forgiveness


To be able to forgive yourself and to be approved?


Or you have already set you free


From self-guilt, self-shame and self-blame


And you say sorry to let them know


You appreciate them


You appreciate your relationship with them


You acknowledge how they feel


And what can you do to make up for the damage done?


That is your strength


Your courage


Your vulnerability


Your authenticity


Your pure love right there


What if it is not about forgiveness but about what can be done to change the situations?


By your deep inner work to process


Allow your unresolved thoughts, feelings and emotions within you to come up


To flow through you


To transform them into your pure awareness


Your natural state of being


And make empowering choices


That set you and others free


For you to move on and forward with your life


What if ‘forgiveness’ is just another word


For ‘freedom’


Freedom from judgments of you


Freedom from judgments of others


Freedom to be you


Freedom to be them


Without wrongness or rightness


It just is


Neutrality


Inner peace with yourself


Pure consciousness


Infinite, pure, God within’s love


In her best-selling book ‘Dying To Be Me’ by Anita Moorjani - a popular author, speaker and spiritual teacher


She had terminal cancer, literally died and had a near-death experience


She chose to come back to life and healed the cancer herself naturally within a couple of weeks when she got forgiveness on a whole different level in that super-consciousness state


She said: ‘I realized that within that infinite, nonjudgmental realm, there’s actually no need to forgive myself or anybody else. We’re all perfect, exquisite children of the Universe, and we exist out of pure love’.


What if there is nothing or nobody to forgive


But just to come back and remember our truth


That we are pure, God within’s love?


That is the gateway to


Your infinite freedom to be YOU


You got this. One step at a time.


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