How much of your life have you spent
With those whom you felt unsafe
To open yourself up with,
Not good enough around,
Unheard, not understood,
Unappreciated, unacknowledged
And unseen?
How much of your life have you spent
Doubting yourself, making you wrong
For even feeling that way?
As a result of it,
How much of your life have you spent
Not appreciating you,
Not acknowledging you,
Not seeing you,
Not hearing you,
Not wanting you,
While bending over backwards,
Giving, giving and giving some more
Until you have nothing left to give
Hoping and waiting that
One day somebody else will change
One day somebody else will see you,
Then you can see you
Thinking and believing that
This is unconditional love?
Is it true?
Does it feel heavy for you?
You are that loving and caring
You are capable of giving that much
And caring that deeply
Yet unconditional love is not
Being a doormat
Unconditional love is not
Treating everybody else kindly
And excluding YOU
Unconditinal love is not
Putting everybody else first
And you second or last
It is accepting less than
It is tolerating
It is unkindness to you
Everywhere you misidentified and misapplied
Unconditional love as tolerance,
Tolerance as unconditional love, and
Everything you have done to
Give all parts and pieces of you
To others, to take care of them
For their happiness
Other than your own
Believing that you are unworthy
That you ain’t supposed to ask
For whatever you would like
That you ain’t supposed to have
Whatever you desire
That brings you joy,
And how much of that lie
Is what you bought
From all those who taught you
Your father, mother, any and all
Authority figures and
Everybody else around you
As real, true and yours
When it actually wasn’t?
A little, a lot or all of it?
Everything that is,
Would you like to
Uncreate, destroy, and
Return all that pile of crap
To all senders please?
That much of your capacity and capability
Of giving and deep caring for others
Is that much you have and be for you
Would you like to acknowledge, receive
And reclaim it all for YOU
For all eternity?
You deserve to have whatever
And whoever you desire
That is inspiration and empowerment
That is contribution and expansion
To your life and living
For your joy and happiness
For your peace and serenity
For your lightness and freedom
For your infinite possibilites and capacities
For your gigantic wings to fly
Choose to ask for what you want
Even when you doubt
Choose to speak your truth
Even when you fear
Choose to walk away from
Any relationship and people
Even when you feel otherwise
And want to hold on to them
When you know deep in your heart
They aren’t in alignment with
Your highest purpose,
Choose to do something different
For your amazing adventure
Even when you have fear of the unknown
To explore what else you are capable of
Be bold
Dream big
Dive deep
Fly high
Because YOU as an infinite being
Are way greater than all the thoughts,
Feelings, emotions, beliefs,
Fear and doubt
That drag you down
Would you like to receive
From your own soul and God within you
It is safe and possible for you,
And you are so worthy and deserving
To have those whom you feel safe with
Those whom you can open yourself up to
Those who can hold space for you
Those who can inspire and empower you
Those who can lift you up
The way you are that space and capacity
For you and others?
What if by letting go of
Who and what you don’t want,
You create space and invitation
For who and what you truly desire
To come into your life?
What if by letting go of
Who and what no longer works for you,
You gain more and all of YOU?
That is your exact message
That is your exact prayer
That is your exact ask to
The entire Universe for
What your heart, soul and being desire
That is your power to create
And co-create with the Universe
Because you start with YOU first
Because you trust you first
Because you see you first
Because you appreciate you first
Because you reclaim YOU first
That is how powerful you are
That is how capable you are
That is how worthy you are
Take your power and worth back
Have your power and worth
Own your power and wortb
Stand in your power and worth
Unapologetically
That power and worth is YOU
Your magnificent soul
Your brilliant light
Your God’s magic and miracle
Your God’s gift and blessing
Your greatness and genius
You are born to be
You got this. One step at a time.
- Phuong
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