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Your Joy and Ease

Have you ever felt humiliated


Have you ever been made wrong


Have you ever been silenced


For expressing yourself


Whatever you thought


However you felt


Wherever you came from


Then you got confused


Experiencing the emotional turmoil


Feeling insane thinking that


You were all wrong?


How much of that was the manipulation


How much of that was the emotional abuse


That you were buying into


To make you believe that


You did something wrong


You weren’t allowed to express yourself


You were too much


It was all your fault


All of those things


Along those lines?


Can anybody silence you


Without your permission?


Can anybody humiliate you


Without your permission?


Can anybody guilt or shame you


Without your permission?


Noone


Your permission


Your freedom to choose


To say YES or NO


Is your very power


That noone can take away from you


The more you speak with


The wrong people for you,


The more you’ll feel wrong


The more it will drag you down


There is nothing you can do about it


There is nothing for you to fix


As it is not your job in the first place


It is a waste of your time and energy


To stay in those kinds of environments


To speak to those who aren’t right for you


They aren’t emotionally available for you


They aren’t emotionally capable for you


They can’t receive you


That is who they are


That is what they are


From where they are


Have you ever had the hope,


Spoken or unspoken,


That some day they will change?


How much of that is a lie that you buy?


Would you like to acknowledge


And see your total truth


Even if it might be painful as hell that


They won’t no matter how much


You try?


People can only change


When they themselves desire to change


And do whatever it takes to


Make it happen


Without you having to fix


Without you having to control


Without you having to do anything


That is total freedom


For both you and them


If you find yourself


In that situation,


Be aware of what is going on


Trust your feelings


Trust your intuition


It is guiding you


Honor you


Leave


Walk away


Let them go


Clear them out of your life


In order for you


To have space


To invite into your life


Those who are right for you


Would you like to know


What it feels like


To have those who can receive you fully


To have those who allow you to speak freely


To have those who empower you


To have those who inspire you


To have those who celebrate you


To have those who appreciate you


To have those who honor you


To have those who are emotionally available


To have those who are emotionally capable


For you


Because you choose you


For YOU?


All it takes is your YES


The Universe is saying YES back to you


It is done, sealed and delivered


You are on your way


Of creating your life and living


With greatness


With joy


With ease


That God created you to be


You got this. One step at a time.


- Phuong