Have you ever felt humiliated
Have you ever been made wrong
Have you ever been silenced
For expressing yourself
Whatever you thought
However you felt
Wherever you came from
Then you got confused
Experiencing the emotional turmoil
Feeling insane thinking that
You were all wrong?
How much of that was the manipulation
How much of that was the emotional abuse
That you were buying into
To make you believe that
You did something wrong
You weren’t allowed to express yourself
You were too much
It was all your fault
All of those things
Along those lines?
Can anybody silence you
Without your permission?
Can anybody humiliate you
Without your permission?
Can anybody guilt or shame you
Without your permission?
Noone
Your permission
Your freedom to choose
To say YES or NO
Is your very power
That noone can take away from you
The more you speak with
The wrong people for you,
The more you’ll feel wrong
The more it will drag you down
There is nothing you can do about it
There is nothing for you to fix
As it is not your job in the first place
It is a waste of your time and energy
To stay in those kinds of environments
To speak to those who aren’t right for you
They aren’t emotionally available for you
They aren’t emotionally capable for you
They can’t receive you
That is who they are
That is what they are
From where they are
Have you ever had the hope,
Spoken or unspoken,
That some day they will change?
How much of that is a lie that you buy?
Would you like to acknowledge
And see your total truth
Even if it might be painful as hell that
They won’t no matter how much
You try?
People can only change
When they themselves desire to change
And do whatever it takes to
Make it happen
Without you having to fix
Without you having to control
Without you having to do anything
That is total freedom
For both you and them
If you find yourself
In that situation,
Be aware of what is going on
Trust your feelings
Trust your intuition
It is guiding you
Honor you
Leave
Walk away
Let them go
Clear them out of your life
In order for you
To have space
To invite into your life
Those who are right for you
Would you like to know
What it feels like
To have those who can receive you fully
To have those who allow you to speak freely
To have those who empower you
To have those who inspire you
To have those who celebrate you
To have those who appreciate you
To have those who honor you
To have those who are emotionally available
To have those who are emotionally capable
For you
Because you choose you
For YOU?
All it takes is your YES
The Universe is saying YES back to you
It is done, sealed and delivered
You are on your way
Of creating your life and living
With greatness
With joy
With ease
That God created you to be
You got this. One step at a time.
- Phuong
