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Your total freedom and total allowance

Have you ever had the experiences where you wanted to help someone and the more you tried to help, the more you and your body got heavier while they wouldn’t change?


Then you might end up feeling frustrated, tired or exhausted as they wouldn’t choose anything differently?


How much of what you did is actually thinking and deciding they needed help, or they needed this or that when they actually didn’t?


What did you define as caring that actually isn’t?


Caring is allowing others to be where they are without making them wrong for their choices


Or making you wrong for not being able to help them


We can’t help someone when they don’t ask for it, or when they aren’t ready or willing to receive it


How much of that is actually controlling despite a good intention of what you think is best for them instead of allowing others to be, make their own choices, their own mistakes, learn from them and grow for their own evolution?


It is their path


Their journey


Their total freedom


Their total power to choose


Helping and caring doesn’t mean that you allow others to drag you down with their same choices that keep them stuck


Helping and caring for you and others also means


Sometimes you have to


Leave them there


Leave their space


For your total freedom and power to choose and be you from where you are at


For their total freedom and power to choose and be them from where they are at


You are the only one who knows what you need


You are the only one who knows what is true for you


Nobody else


You are never wrong for whatever choices you make


Even if those choices make you fall


People might think those choices work against you


What if those choices never work against you ever, but always work for you in some way no matter what?


That you can’t learn otherwise?


What if they help you learn, grow, get stronger, trust you a whole lot more from all those fallings


Instead of listening to somebody else saying this is wrong, that is right and you’d end up doubting yourself and your choices for the rest of your life?


It is your own path


Your own journey


Your own way of learning and growing


It is unique to you


Nobody else


Therefore you are never wrong for it


No matter what, you have done nothing wrong


With every choice you have made in your life


Everything happens just right in every way


For your soul growth and evolution


The same goes with others


That is total allowance


Total freedom


Total power to choose


Without judgment of you and others


Without wrongness or rightness


That is meeting you from where you are at


That is meeting others from where they are at


You are freedom


You are an infinite spirit


You are a magnicifent angel


You are a magnicient God within


Flying higher and higher


Further and further to the horizon of infinite possibilities


You got this. One step at a time.



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