Have you ever had the experiences where you wanted to help someone and the more you tried to help, the more you and your body got heavier while they wouldn’t change?
Then you might end up feeling frustrated, tired or exhausted as they wouldn’t choose anything differently?
How much of what you did is actually thinking and deciding they needed help, or they needed this or that when they actually didn’t?
What did you define as caring that actually isn’t?
Caring is allowing others to be where they are without making them wrong for their choices
Or making you wrong for not being able to help them
We can’t help someone when they don’t ask for it, or when they aren’t ready or willing to receive it
How much of that is actually controlling despite a good intention of what you think is best for them instead of allowing others to be, make their own choices, their own mistakes, learn from them and grow for their own evolution?
It is their path
Their total freedom
Their total power to choose
Helping and caring doesn’t mean that you allow others to drag you down with their same choices that keep them stuck
Helping and caring for you and others also means
Sometimes you have to
Leave them there
Leave their space
For your total freedom and power to choose and be you from where you are at
For their total freedom and power to choose and be them from where they are at
You are the only one who knows what you need
You are the only one who knows what is true for you
You are never wrong for whatever choices you make
Even if those choices make you fall
People might think those choices work against you
What if those choices never work against you ever, but always work for you in some way no matter what?
That you can’t learn otherwise?
What if they help you learn, grow, get stronger, trust you a whole lot more from all those fallings
Instead of listening to somebody else saying this is wrong, that is right and you’d end up doubting yourself and your choices for the rest of your life?
It is your own path
Your own journey
Your own way of learning and growing
It is unique to you
Therefore you are never wrong for it
No matter what, you have done nothing wrong
With every choice you have made in your life
Everything happens just right in every way
For your soul growth and evolution
The same goes with others
That is total allowance
Total power to choose
Without judgment of you and others
Without wrongness or rightness
That is meeting you from where you are at
That is meeting others from where they are at
You are freedom
You are an infinite spirit
You are a magnicifent angel
You are a magnicient God within
Flying higher and higher
Further and further to the horizon of infinite possibilities
You got this. One step at a time.