How much of your life have you spent
Sacrificing yourself
Cutting off all parts and pieces of you
Suppressing all of your thoughts,
Feelings, emotions, and truth
In order to meet others' needs,
Requires, desires and expectations of you
Believing that only others deserve the best
While you don't?
How much of your life have you spent
Not speaking your truth,
Saying no when you want to say yes
Saying yes when you want to say no
What is or isn't true for you
For fear of upsetting others?
How much of your life have you been told
What to do and what not to do
Not being allowed to make choices
Or decisions at your free will
And if you do, you are made wrong,
Guilted and shamed for it,
Either way, you are damned?
How much of your life have you spent
Knowing what others need
While being asked: "What do you want?
What do you need?
What do you truly desire for you?
How do you feel?
You would say something like
I don't know
I am not sure
I have no idea?
As a result of it, how much of your life
Have you spent believing
You can't trust you
You can't believe you
You can't make it
Without someone else's approval
And acceptance of you
You doubt you at every turn
For whatever choice you make?
Do these questions feel heavy as hell for you?
Whatever feels lighter is always true for you
Whatever feels heavier is always a lie,
Most of the time it's the lie or lies we buy
From others as real and ours when it isn't
Your total freedom to choose for you
Is your birthright
Joy is your birthright
Lightness is your birthright
Inner knowing is your birthright
Total awareness is your birthtright
So how much of
You are unworthy
You don't deserve this or that
You can't trust you
You can't make it without
Someone else's approval
You don't know this or that
You can't be YOU
Is what you perceived, picked up and took on
As your own from everybody else
Who taught you, who couldn't hear you,
Who couldn't allow you to be
Who you are and what you are
As you are, when it actually wasn't?
A little, a lot or all of it?
Everything that is, would you like to
Return it all to them please?
And everything you have done,
Suppressing your truth and who you are
To be everybody else when you are not
Doubting you and your truth at every turn
In order to please everybody else
In order to make it
In order to fit in,
Everything that is,
Would you like to uncreate, delete,
Destroy it all and take YOU back please?
What if you do know
What is true and light for you?
What if you do know
From the core of your being
That you are worthy
Proof?
You are right here and right now
Reading all these words
Echoing what you have already known
And you keep standing
Keeping finding your truth
Keeping going for you
Keeping looking, finding and choosing
What works for you
What ignites your soul
What burns your flame
To be more of YOU
At your own pace
Because you know you are worthy
Of receiving and being YOU
So would you like to receive that
It is safe and possible to be YOU
Without having to be anybody else
Others want you to be?
Would you like to receive that
It is safe and possible for you
To speak your truth,
Live your truth,
Be your truth unapologetically
And lead your own path
Without the need of anyone else's
Acceptance or approval of you
Without having to doubt you
Without having to make you wrong at all?
Would you like to receive that
It is safe and possible for you
To stand in your own power
To trust you and your choices
To trust your heart and where it leads you
Even when it doesn't make sense
To shine your light in full force
In order to be all of YOU?
That is how capable you are
That is how powerful you are
To have and be this total trust
In YOU
That is how loving you are
That is how caring you are
To YOU to be
The leader of your own path
The creator of your own future
The artist of your own masterpieces
The master of your own destiny
The light of your own heart
The greatest believer in YOU
The greatest cheerleader of YOU
Because what matters above all else
Is YOU
You choose to believe in you first
You choose to trust you first
You choose to speak your truth
Regardless of people's opinions
And points of view about you
The more you are willing to speak it
And stand in your power,
The more you trust you
The more you take your power back
The more you take your voice back
The more you take YOU back
And be YOU
The more you will meet those who
Would like to hear and receive
What you have to offer them
Nobody's like or dislike can stop you
From where you want to go
From the truth of who you are
The magnificent soul
The brilliant light
The beautiful symphony
The miraculous gift
The infinite Ocean of
Power and potency
Capacities and capabilities
Depth and wisdom
Magic and miracle
Kindness and gentleness
Possibilities and total freedom
You are born to be
For all eternity and back
You got this. One step at a time.
- Phuong
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