How many times have you had
The expriences where you wanted to
Speak what you truly thought
How you truly felt
Where you came from
Yet you were shut up, shut out
Pushed away, put aside,
Not allowed to speak, made wrong
Or given a silent treatment
Because the others wanted to
Defend and protect the rightness
Of their points of view
And wouldn’t hear you out?
How much of your life
Have you made you wrong
Thinking and believing that
They are always right
You are wrong
You did something wrong
You said something wrong,
There is something wrong with you
You know nothing
You know less than
You can’t trust you
You are unworthy to be heard,
The list goes on and on?
Is it true?
Does it feel heavy for you?
Whatever feels heavy is always a lie
Whatever feels lighter is always true for you
How much of ‘You are wrong,
They are always right
They know better
They know more
You can’t trust you’
Is actually a pile of crap you have bought
From your parents, brothers, sisters, teachers
All those who were your authority figures
Since you were a kid
Repeating all these lies
Throughout your adulthood
With all those whom you,
Consciously or unconsciously,
Perceive as authorities,
Healers, coaches, gurus, experts
Friends, colleagues, bosses,
Elder people, husbands, wives,
Relatives, cousins, neighbours
You name it
As real, true and yours
When it actually wasn’t?
A little, a lot or all of it?
Everything that is, and everything
You have done to guilt, shame and doubt you
Giving your power away to others
And the rightness of their points of view,
Would you like to uncreate, delete
Destroy it all and return all the lies
To all the senders please?
Right and wrong
Good and bad
Only exists
When there is judgment
Wherever there is judgment,
That is where we cut off our
Total awareness and total clarity
That is where we choose to not
Trust us and what we know
In order to make judgment real and true
So how many judgments have you created,
Invented or bought from everybody else
Around you that keep
Right and wrong
Good and bad
Saintly and evil
Positive and negative
Shame and pride
So on and so forth
This polarity reality, in place,
Which keeps your thinking mind in charge
While it is the other way around,
And that is your pure heart and
Your infinite being,
And this is the truth of who you are?
A little, a lot or more than God knows?
Everything that is,
Would you like to uncreate,
Delete and destroy it all?
What if when others want to be right,
Let them be right,
What if you have nothing to convince
What if you have nothing to defend
What if you have nothing to protect
What if you have nothing to
Fight for or against
What if there is nothing wrong with you
What if you do or say nothing wrong
What if you just speak your truth
What if it is not about them being right,
You being wrong or vice versa,
But just walk away and
Keep going in your path?
Would you like to have a kind of relationship
In whatever shape or form where
Others aren’t capable of hearing,
Receving you, what you have to say?
No
You deserve way better than that
Would you like to acknowledge
This truth about and of you?
What if your choice to walk away
From any relationship that
Doesn’t work for you
Is your saying YES
To YOU and the entire Universe
Within and without, that
You want something different
You want who and what works for you
That brings you inspiration and empowerment
That brings you lightness and expansion
That brings you joy and total awareness
That brings you unshakeable trust in you
Because you choose YOU first
Because you trust YOU first?
Would you be willing to stand alone
If required?
Would you be willing to be different
Without the need to fit in
Without the need to belong with
Without the need to agree or align with
Without the need to resist or react to
Anybody, society,
Culture, organization,
Community, group,
With your total allowance of YOU
Because you choose to trust YOU
Because you choose to live for YOU
Because you are your own authority,
Your Ultimate Source,
And this is your total freedom to be?
Would you like to receive
Through every cell of your body
With all of your heart and soul that
It is absolutely safe and possible
To trust you, your knowing and choice,
What is true and light for you
Without making you wrong
Without doubting you
Without making you less than anybody else
Regardless of what it might look like
On the outside, and that
You are way more capable
Of doing, choosing and being
That Ultimate Source for you?
As this is your innate infinite lovingness
Your innate infinite kindness
Your innate infinite gentleness
Your innate infinite generosity of spirit
To you
Simply for YOU
That you are born to be
For all eternity and back
You got this . One step at a time
- Phuong
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